Old friends

Happy Friday for those who celebrate, and with an American holiday on Monday, who doesn't?

I was able to take today off to set up a four day weekend.  Grateful for a break from what has been a hectic few weeks.  But I came here today to share a couple of great experiences from my day off so far.

Recently I learned that a man whom I met in college and roomed with for a time was moving back to my home area, and was interested in renewing our friendship.  We've always been lucky as we would see each other every year or two for a cup of coffee, but always were able to resume or restart our conversation easily enough upon meeting.

We exchanged some dates but when I secured the day off I let my friend know that I was available today. So we met at a coffee shop today at mid-morning and had what I would consider a stellar conversation.  Among the topics were hair loss, Medicare plans, post retirement employment options and a host of other topics.  On top of these scintillating subjects, we also spoke briefly about his daughter's forthcoming marriage, which is old hat for me, since we married off both of our kids some time ago!

Our visit ended with a solid handshake and a mutual commitment to meet whenever possible from here.  I expect every conversation to be equally enjoyable.

Not long after that, I went to meet another longtime friend, but one with whom I've remained close for a long time.  This guy lives in my home area, and we've known each other since I was eight years old.

We both are busy people with our jobs and families, but he has the kind of career that gives him great flexibility in the summer months.  Because we're both running around in circles much of the rest of the year we try to make time to meet and visit and catch up, and today was that day.  I don't know that I had seen him since the holidays last December!

It really is remarkable to me that we've remained friends for all of these years.  He contacted me recently about a health situation that he was addressing with his doctor, asking about my similar situation in the past, and I was happy that I could provide my perspective.  In the end, all was well, but I was glad to be able to share what I had experienced in a similar vein.

As we parted today he made the same commitment he often does at this time of year--let's see if we can get out and play golf!  If we involve two more busy people that could be a challenge, but hopefully we'll try!

I had a conversation with someone recently about having a lot of friendly acquaintances but a smaller number of true friends.  I think deep down we all follow this pattern, unless we're out there seeking clicks on social media and the like.

I am blessed to have friends like these who have been there for me through the years.

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