The parent rap
Good morning, friends. I don't often post on Saturdays, but here goes.... I'm a parent. Specifically, I'm a stepparent, but my kids know that they are MY kids as well as their mom's. I have a lot of thoughts about parenting at this stage of life. First off, I was raised by my parents, two products of the Depression and natives of Huntington, West Virginia. Neither grew up in privilege and I certainly didn't either. I'm the middle of three sons in our household, each of my parents was married to another partner prior to their own marriage. My father had two children in his first marriage, my mother had none. They did the best they could, I guess, as I grew up in the era of a single breadwinner in the family. So child-rearing was often left to my mother, as my dad's "job" was to go out into the world and earn the money that we needed to live on. I don't think I ever fully understood my father. He had a good mind, but because he was raised...